How Does Love Work?

That's a really great question. how does love work? I mean is it just a characteristic of our well being? Being as it may love is a language that no one will ever understand completely. Love comes in a form we could never be able to aspire in our lives. Why is that we know that we're in love. Is it really love or is it just a crush that would just end up in soul crushing? How we can decipher love, is if we conquer all the hurt we have faced BECAUSE it is the one thing that brings us down. It is what makes us want to not love any more. 

When you're watching a drama or a soap opera, are there a lot of break ups and fights and confused love between a plentiful of people? Is it because of what we see, we're afraid of getting the chance to find love? Are we afraid that we're going to end up like that? We shouldn't be. It only works if you believe it works. That's when you will be able to find love. It is for you to be able to have love also find you.

Love Finds You:

•      How you know when love finds you? I know this very well. 
• If you're a guy - When love finds you is when you see a girl and no matter what you're thinking of, it's her that replaces every thought that's not her one....by....one. It's when all shuts down so that she is the only girl you can see. She is the only girl that clicks into your head whenever you think of something. This is how you know love found you...and you don't want to push it away...
• If you're a girl - When love finds you is when you look into the man's eyes and know exactly what he is to you. The kind of look no one could ever give you. With sincerity, passion, truth, honor, decency, and heart is how the look looks like to your eyes. You know right away that he will be the one who covers you in a time of need. You know right away that he will be the one who protects you. You know there will be times he will fail at protecting you, but know that he tried. He tried his best, his full strength, his full emotion, and he tried with everything else he had to take care of you. That is what protection is. You feel all this then....love has found you and you don't want it to ever stop.

Once love has found you, what do you do now? All you can really do is to ride it for as long as an eternity. Once love has found you and you've accepted it, that will be a one-in-a-lifetime moment and you will never forget it. What do you mean how long as an eternity? You can't get off the ride. It's a continuous search for true love. If you don't think he or she would be the one for you then that means you just fell off your ride and you're hanging on for dear life to get back in the seat. You getting back up would be the only way to be happy again.

Getting Back Up

• How do you get back up? Try this.
• What you do is you hang in there and pull yourself up. If you have ever gotten dump by someone special to you, then you know how that throbbing in the heart feels like. That throbbing is every strain you use in your arms to pull you back up to your ride. It's you trying to get over him or her. You start doing things to take away the pain. You're meeting new friends and you're outside again - away from the dark and empty space you were in. When that throbbing starts to diminish, when that strain starts to less hurt, that's when you know that you've finally climbed up into your seat. Ride now you're just panicking and gasping about what just happened to you.
• When you know that you're actually back up is when it feels as if you've gotten over that panic attack and started enjoying the ride again. 

Once you've actually enjoyed your ride again, that means you're moving on with life. You're ready to ride another ride or perhaps that same ride. You end up deciding a different ride though. You chose a different one because you want to go to a better ride than that. You're finding another someone special. You're feeling those same feelings when love finds you. This time though, you start to trust it again. But guess what? It happens again. You are having to get back up again. You end up not though. Instead you let go and get hurt. It's too hard for you to pull yourself back up. You can't keep going with love, you're to scared so you screamed and let go. You don't want to ride any ride again because you don't want to get hurt anymore. Once is all you want to experience in rides in your lifetime. So what you do is force yourself to be trapped sick on a bed - a hospital bed.

Sick Bedded

• You end up letting go of the ride and have yourself to get badly injured. You didn't want to get back on the ride. You screamed and let go. You are now segregating yourself from the world, who you think can hurt you, or even your own self. You don't want anyone. Your social life has been leaking out and you don't want to fix it. You never want to ride or even look at another ride again. You don't want to find love and you don't want love to find you.

The most you can do at this point is to what? This we can only find on our own terms. You open up to a friend and that friend helped you find another path to the happiness you kept desiring. You force yourself to come to realize that being tormented by fear should not be the thing that ends you. You want to break free and soar into the sky above the clouds to feel better.

Once you break free and have the courage to ride again, new things that you would have never thought would happen. After so long of a hibernation, you find the most amazing ride you have ever witnessed. You get on it and love the ride so much. There were some bumpy parts you didn't like but you got through it. Getting through it, you still liked the little bumpiness even though it may have been irritable. You knew that after the bumpiness, the smooth sailing would come back. The bumpiness was a little annoyance, but you still love the ride.

Greatest Ride

• You finally found the right person for you again. You feel that this is the one person who could only make you feel as happy as you are now. You're ready to, again, accept that mind-hypnotizing or that protector. What makes the person much more greater than the rest of anyone else is because of one thing. All those feelings you get from him or her got an addition to the list. That addition was continuous compassion for one another. 
• This would be the real true love finding you. All those others without the addition was YOU finding love. You were just confused which was which. Now you just want the ride to go on forever.

You don't ever the ride to end but it eventually comes to a stop. The ride made you very happy and you were satisfied. Love found you and you could never be happier. You got up and smiled. The ride was done, now you had to go.

Ride Satisfaction

• Once you and your special someone have been together for the longest of time, you two had to go. You grow weak and you have to finally rest. You have to finally sleep. You're gone. You're gone but you went with a smile. Love found you and you also have found love. Love dies though, but it dies when it's job has fully been accomplished.
• You've loved him and even at the end, you did not stop.
• You rethink think the times you were with her and she did nothing but fill your heart up. When it was accidentally spilled, she filled it up for you. You love her with your whole heart. You love her with everything you could ever imagine possible. You apologize quietly to yourself about the things you have ever done to hurt her. You then imagine all the cute names you've ever called her - Em, Honey Bunches of Oats, Sweet Potato, Baby Girl. You know you love her always&forever. You loved her fully. 

She loved you %100 no matter the situation. Muahs...(:

I love you sooooooo much, baby girl. Muahs. Promise me again to never leave me?

 (c)Mr. LameButt